Welcome to MENtally Speaking

Founded by Eric Nettles, MENtally Speaking is more than a platform—it’s a purpose. Born from lived experience, this initiative is here to remind men that healing isn’t weakness, and vulnerability doesn’t disqualify your strength.

Eric’s personal journey—from battling mental despair to becoming a national speaker, author, and mental health advocate—fuels this mission to normalize emotional wellness, break generational silence, and redefine what it means to “be a man.”

Get Involved:

🔹 Read Eric’s Story
Discover Eric’s powerful journey in his debut book, It Was Never About You: Overcoming Mental Despair – A Journey of Resilience.

🔹 Book Eric to Speak
Bring Eric’s voice to your conference, church, campus, or organization. He speaks from the heart—with truth, transparency, and impact.

🔹 Join the Movement
Stay connected for upcoming events, resources, and opportunities to build brotherhood through conversation.

IT WAS NEVER ABOUT YOU

Overcoming Mental Despair: A Journey of Resilience

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PURCHASE TODAY!

Welcome to the transformative journey that awaits within the pages of, It Was Never About You: Overcoming Mental Despair: A Journey of Resilience

In this profound memoir, I delve into the depths of my experiences, offering insights on healing and self-liberation. From poignant tales of my childhood to the struggles with trauma, battles against depression, and the darkest moments where thoughts of suicide loomed large, I invite you to witness my personal growth and accompany me on a path of healing and resilience.

About the Author

Eric M. Nettles Sr., Author of “It Was Never About You”

Eric M. Nettles Sr., is a remarkable individual who bravely shares his story of triumph over childhood trauma and the profound impact it had on his life. In his journey, he found himself compelled to undertake actions that seemed unthinkable, driven by a desperate attempt to alleviate the hidden pain he endured daily. His relentless pursuit of appearing flawless led him down a path of clandestine self-destruction. However, with unwavering faith in God and his own resilience, Eric managed to overcome the physical, mental, and emotional turmoil that threatened to consume him.

Today, Eric stands as a living testament to the power of resilience and the will to survive. Having emerged victorious from the depths of his darkest battles, he now dedicates himself to sharing his story to inspire and support others, unapologetically embracing his true, authentic self. As a survivor of suicide, Eric made a sacred promise to himself and to God, vowing to utilize his experiences to uplift and empower those who face similar struggles.

Eric's story serves as a beacon of hope, dispelling the illusion of perfection that can overshadow the real battles people fight behind closed doors. He takes great pride in shedding light on his personal triumphs, even during times when his outward appearance suggested a flawless existence.

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